Human Interaction

Humans, by our very nature, are just fucking horrible at interacting with one another; unless we are properly taught how to decipher and interpret codes, vis-a-vis verbal and non-verbal, and respond based on our desired outcome of the situation. I've found that most people learn communication, language, and non-verbal skills all the wrong ways - they are taught by society and not by science. Hence, why so many men are AFCs and just plain terrible at dealing with women. Once we understand the structure in which we operate by, life becomes more like The Matrix and less confusing. Unlearn the wrong, then learn the right...this will give you a competitive advantage and differentiate yourself from the pack when desired. Things to think about: always be in control, be strategic (think like a chess match), don't be afraid to be bold, and if you are wrong, make a mistake, or look an idiot, use that your advantage...always think like a hedge fund manager and leverage both your assets and liabilities for success.

Philosophies of Life

Women appreciate deep thinkers, ergo, they like to see that a man takes a more holistic approach to life, one that takes the entire world into consideration and leads to a higher level of consciousness. Humans are not that dissimilar - we all have dreams, ambitions, and the desire to live a particular lifestyle. Be bold and chase your dreams with undying tenacity. Proving yourself doesn't always mean you will be successful [on] the first, second, or even third attempts (think like an entrepreneur even if you are a lifelong member of Big Brother's ranks), so don't focus on the failures...focus on why you didn't succeed, remove negative thoughts from your close thoughts, and develop a plan for success based on your lessons learned. This approach to life is very attractive to other humans and will help you restructure your thinking so failure is appreciated, [so that failure] helps you grow at unparalleled speeds in your personal life...and so that you exude a level of energy that attracts women like you were doused in a synthesized formula of pheromones that was specially engineered to get them naked and horny kinda like a willing form of hypnosis; a trance if you will. Once you free your mind, the secure mental state you exude will set you apart from EVERYONE else (GURU vs AFC type social dynamics)!

Make their life easier

Always strive to make the life of women easier. They are incredible creatures and should be cared for and treated with the utmost respect. Plus, it'll make your life easier, will help to decrease concern on their part, and increase your sexual satisfaction. A happy girl can spend more time thinking about how you make them feel vis-a-vis your actions and the impacting results. If she appreciates your efforts, she's a worthy pursuit and indicates qualification. If not, time to re-evaluate the situation.

New School Thinking, Old School Mentality

It's important to keep life in perspective, at all times.  NLP teaches us this and gives us the tools to do this, but that is a discussion for another thread.  The purpose of this thread is to focus on the thinking of women and the drastic (in the sense of the word drastic) changes that have occurred since the women's suffrage movement, feminism, and a fundamental transformation of the American economy from labor-based to service based.  Less than 100 years ago, women were raised with the intention of finding a "suitable" husband; thus, meeting societal expectations.  Now, in 2011, societal expectations are still more traditional (think 100 years ago) than the reality of the world maps to, causing a serious confusion among the majority of women.  Now, they work...now, they pay their own bills...now, they can vote, etc. etc. etc.

Nevertheless, women still strive to be that "classy girl," viewed favorably through the societal lens of others (especially the socialites); yet they now can and WANT to express their sexuality in a way never "allowed" before, although they are taught very little on the subject, as their education on sexuality is generally limited to Sex in the City.  It is your responsibility to guide the female down the path.  She must trust you and know that she is safe no matter where you take her.  You must completely differentiate yourself (demonstrate value) from the other men that have shaped her thinking.  Most importantly, she must completely believe the "slutty, freaky, kinky, etc." acts she performs with you will never be disclosed to the public.  Once you reach that point with your woman/women, you will reach a level of sexual energy rarely explored.

Don't get too caught-up in PUA lingo and bullshit

Know the PUA community, understand the logic, memorize the terminology, internalize the concepts, and implement your education BUT don't let yourself become a PUA (I only refer to myself as a PUA for qualification purposes and for searching engine optimization reasons...I've found "real" PUAs to be shallow and manipulative, ergo fake, untrustworthy, and, therefore, unworthy).  Use the skills taught, the perspectives given, and the resources provided to augment your life; don't try and become a PUA, just allow yourself to further your personal development and, very important, be NATURAL.  Women are the quickest to notice when a man isn't acting natural.  Don't act like the material or the books, be yourself and use the structure to your advantage. Use NLP, seduction, social dynamics, PUA, etc. to your advantage to better yourself, your conversations, relationships, and opportunities with not just women, but also in business and throughout your life.  This may sound like self-help because it is...you need it.  Otherwise, you wouldn't keep reading my posts dreaming about threesomes with tens you've yet to have, respecting my lifestyle :)