Don't be a pussy & don't be awkward

The two things I see most with AFCs is that they are pussies and have a tendency to be awkward in interpersonal communication, both verbal and non-verbal. Let us address each issue individually and then tie them together as we come to consummation.

First, most AFCs do one of two things with regards to being a pussy. They either are shy and not very aggressive, thus not building comfort; or they are overly aggressive and pushy, thus overshadowing any comfort that may be building. As in everything in life, you must carefully balance the cocky-funny attitude that women so adore to avoid extremes in either direction. It is essential to be bold, demonstrate value, and make yourself stand out, but be aware of your actions and how you are being perceived by/in a group. Make objective assessments periodically and check to ensure that you are following the structured path you have carefully laid out in a given scenario. Every women is similar, but, at the same time, every women is very different. Possess the audacious attitude necessary to unlock their unique pattern and you can grow with them to unprecedented levels in your relationship(s).

Second, don't be that strange dude that makes people feel like you watch too much Dexter. Be aware of your actions but don't be awkward dude. No one wants to be around awkward dude, they want to quickly be rid of him and move on to someone more interesting, entertaining, FUN! The idea is to make women want to be with you because you possess certain traits and qualities they value the most, which you demonstrate upon meeting them and administer using PUA tradecraft. Don't let a pickup or any other conversation become strange. Be watched because you are different. Highlight what makes you different, whether it be intelligence, humor, magic, or anything else that has considerable substance, and demonstrates why a female should sleep with you versus other suitable candidates. Do this all the time, not just in the beginning. Get comfortable and you will fall inline with the rest of the crowd. Be in the starting line-up, don't ride the bench.