Make their life easier

Always strive to make the life of women easier. They are incredible creatures and should be cared for and treated with the utmost respect. Plus, it'll make your life easier, will help to decrease concern on their part, and increase your sexual satisfaction. A happy girl can spend more time thinking about how you make them feel vis-a-vis your actions and the impacting results. If she appreciates your efforts, she's a worthy pursuit and indicates qualification. If not, time to re-evaluate the situation.

New School Thinking, Old School Mentality

It's important to keep life in perspective, at all times.  NLP teaches us this and gives us the tools to do this, but that is a discussion for another thread.  The purpose of this thread is to focus on the thinking of women and the drastic (in the sense of the word drastic) changes that have occurred since the women's suffrage movement, feminism, and a fundamental transformation of the American economy from labor-based to service based.  Less than 100 years ago, women were raised with the intention of finding a "suitable" husband; thus, meeting societal expectations.  Now, in 2011, societal expectations are still more traditional (think 100 years ago) than the reality of the world maps to, causing a serious confusion among the majority of women.  Now, they work...now, they pay their own bills...now, they can vote, etc. etc. etc.

Nevertheless, women still strive to be that "classy girl," viewed favorably through the societal lens of others (especially the socialites); yet they now can and WANT to express their sexuality in a way never "allowed" before, although they are taught very little on the subject, as their education on sexuality is generally limited to Sex in the City.  It is your responsibility to guide the female down the path.  She must trust you and know that she is safe no matter where you take her.  You must completely differentiate yourself (demonstrate value) from the other men that have shaped her thinking.  Most importantly, she must completely believe the "slutty, freaky, kinky, etc." acts she performs with you will never be disclosed to the public.  Once you reach that point with your woman/women, you will reach a level of sexual energy rarely explored.

Don't get too caught-up in PUA lingo and bullshit

Know the PUA community, understand the logic, memorize the terminology, internalize the concepts, and implement your education BUT don't let yourself become a PUA (I only refer to myself as a PUA for qualification purposes and for searching engine optimization reasons...I've found "real" PUAs to be shallow and manipulative, ergo fake, untrustworthy, and, therefore, unworthy).  Use the skills taught, the perspectives given, and the resources provided to augment your life; don't try and become a PUA, just allow yourself to further your personal development and, very important, be NATURAL.  Women are the quickest to notice when a man isn't acting natural.  Don't act like the material or the books, be yourself and use the structure to your advantage. Use NLP, seduction, social dynamics, PUA, etc. to your advantage to better yourself, your conversations, relationships, and opportunities with not just women, but also in business and throughout your life.  This may sound like self-help because it is...you need it.  Otherwise, you wouldn't keep reading my posts dreaming about threesomes with tens you've yet to have, respecting my lifestyle :)

Be Interesting, Not Weird

It is all too often that MEN make the opener, one or multiple threads, or the general experience WEIRD for the target, group, and/or social make-up of the scene.  The power lies with the MAN and it is HIS responsibility to differentiate himself from the pack vis-a-vis demonstrating value.  This is done by being different, not strange; and most importantly, there is a very fine line.  The first problem most men have is they don't KNOW they are being weird because they have not been taught how to think.  Society teaches men and women how it is "supposed" to work and how best to deal with the sexes...and they FAIL in almost every imaginable way.  The quicker you are able to unlearn EVERYTHING you've been taught about sex, relationships, women, pick-up by society, the easier it will be to avoid being weird with women in the future.  This is one of many steps to building comfort with the opposite sex and finding what you want in life.

Experience Proximity and Relativity

Humans, by our very nature, are creatures based on experience and base our feelings on our understanding of a particular experience or set of experiences.  For example, if you open a three-set of tens and are able to identify that your primary target has had very positive experiences with people whose names begin with the letter "J," this can be used to your advantage regardless of your name spelling.  If your name happens to be Jason, then bring the comforting, safe thoughts your target disclosed to the forefront of her thinking.  This is what seduction is all about - bringing these thoughts to the forefront of your target(s) thinking, invoking positive feelings, and having your target(s) act on said feelings.  On the other hand, if your name is Mohammad, then chances are you have a much more difficult set to pursue than Jason.  Nevertheless, Mohammad would want to introduce the idea that venturing into territory unknown is the best course of action for his target.  He would then actively move the concept of "J" further away from his target, while simultaneously developing threads around the intriguing nature of something different than the safe "J."  In closing, this is where the students are separated from the masters...