Be Interesting, Not Weird

It is all too often that MEN make the opener, one or multiple threads, or the general experience WEIRD for the target, group, and/or social make-up of the scene.  The power lies with the MAN and it is HIS responsibility to differentiate himself from the pack vis-a-vis demonstrating value.  This is done by being different, not strange; and most importantly, there is a very fine line.  The first problem most men have is they don't KNOW they are being weird because they have not been taught how to think.  Society teaches men and women how it is "supposed" to work and how best to deal with the sexes...and they FAIL in almost every imaginable way.  The quicker you are able to unlearn EVERYTHING you've been taught about sex, relationships, women, pick-up by society, the easier it will be to avoid being weird with women in the future.  This is one of many steps to building comfort with the opposite sex and finding what you want in life.