It's important to keep life in perspective, at all times. NLP teaches us this and gives us the tools to do this, but that is a discussion for another thread. The purpose of this thread is to focus on the thinking of women and the drastic (in the sense of the word drastic) changes that have occurred since the women's suffrage movement, feminism, and a fundamental transformation of the American economy from labor-based to service based. Less than 100 years ago, women were raised with the intention of finding a "suitable" husband; thus, meeting societal expectations. Now, in 2011, societal expectations are still more traditional (think 100 years ago) than the reality of the world maps to, causing a serious confusion among the majority of women. Now, they work...now, they pay their own bills...now, they can vote, etc. etc. etc.
Nevertheless, women still strive to be that "classy girl," viewed favorably through the societal lens of others (especially the socialites); yet they now can and WANT to express their sexuality in a way never "allowed" before, although they are taught very little on the subject, as their education on sexuality is generally limited to Sex in the City. It is your responsibility to guide the female down the path. She must trust you and know that she is safe no matter where you take her. You must completely differentiate yourself (demonstrate value) from the other men that have shaped her thinking. Most importantly, she must completely believe the "slutty, freaky, kinky, etc." acts she performs with you will never be disclosed to the public. Once you reach that point with your woman/women, you will reach a level of sexual energy rarely explored.
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